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“Chosen Man” is a groundbreaking program designed to help you break the loop and rebuild your identity from the root so you see changes very quickly - within 3 months.
2027 will be the year where everything changes, and you become the man you keep promising to be.
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Do you keep relapsing into habits you swore you'd quit, for so long now?
Whether it’s p*rn or your phone, this doesn’t mean you lack discipline, but it requires a new approach.
Or maybe you know exactly what to do, you've saved every video and written every plan, but you're still unable to make yourself actually do it?
This doesn’t mean you’re lazy or stuck like this forever, it just means the part of you that's driving isn’t ready to change yet.
Or maybe you're performing a version of yourself at work, with your girl and with your friends, but nobody knows the real state of you, and you can't remember who's behind the mask anymore?
This doesn’t mean you don’t know who you are or that you’re the failure you might feel like, it just means the mask stuck.
You might have tried it all: 5am alarms, cold showers, the gym, a dopamine detox. Or maybe just some of it, for a week. But nothing sticks.
You take one step forward and three steps back. Every fresh start fades within days, leaving you feeling stuck and ashamed.
As the years go by, you might see yourself falling further and further behind other men, and hope begins to slip away.
Every time you break a promise to yourself or slip back into the same habit, your mind spirals, taking it as evidence that something is wrong with you and that you'll never change.
You want to believe this time will be different, but past disappointments hold you back.
You’re caught in a cycle of forcing and giving up, managing expectations to avoid the pain of hoping, only to be let down again.
Sound familiar? You’re in the right place.
Why you keep falling back into it
(Or why nothing ever sticks)
Your lack of change isn’t because you can’t do it, it’s because your identity and your beliefs are protecting something else.
Holding back is actually your mind’s way of being super intelligent. It’s keeping you safe.
Here’s what no one tells you…
When your identity is built on old beliefs, fear or shame, it prioritises staying safe over growth, discipline and lasting change.
It’s not that you don’t want to change; your mind simply can’t commit to it while it’s busy defending the old version of you.
Discipline and information alone don’t address the root cause. You’re trying to teach skills to a man who doesn’t believe he’s allowed them.
Think of it like bad foundations.
When the foundations are cracked, decorating the house is pointless. Every few months the walls come down and you blame the paint.
When your identity is in protection mode, the mind puts growth, like discipline and drive, on the back burner.
This is why routines and willpower haven’t worked. The man underneath is too guarded to change from these efforts.
The good news is, when you know how to move your identity from protection mode to safe and settled, everything changes
Old loops lose their grip. Discipline returns. Change happens naturally.
🔥 Men who relapsed every week stop relying on willpower.
🔥 Men stuck between knowing and doing start doing it by default.
🔥 Men hiding behind a mask finally start being seen.
This is why my clients see results within weeks. Because when you address the root cause and take action in the right order, change becomes natural and inevitable.
I’ll show you exactly what to do to get your mind to prioritise growth again. So that you can keep your word, build real confidence and become the man you know you can be.
This work is absolutely life changing. And it can happen quickly.
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What do you do exactly?
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Chosen Man is my groundbreaking program for men who feel stuck, that focuses on identity and discipline.
It is designed to help you break your loops, drop the masks, keep your word to yourself, have real conversations and experience an explosion of confidence and drive, all while rebuilding your identity from the root up.
You will see changes within weeks if you go all in with my process.
This program is broken down into two powerful phases.
Phase one is a three month LIVE.
In the first three months, we dive deep. This is designed to give you everything you need to fully understand and implement what works for you.
We’ll focus on:
The goal of this phase is to create drastic results in a short amount of time.
After the LIVE phase, you’ll have the remaining three months to continue receiving my support daily.
This will ensure you have:
This program is designed to create transformative results whilst also giving you the support you need to sustain them.
How will this work? What is included?
The “Chosen Man” program is not just a course, it’s a fully immersive, results driven experience designed to create real change in your life.
Here is how it’ll look:
Phase one: The 3 Month LIVE
During the 3 months LIVE period, a new class is released each week that you can watch on-demand over the weekend. The classes are structured teaching designed to create breakthroughs in your identity and habits.
We will meet once a week on Zoom for our Weekly Group Calls. These two hour live sessions are where I answer questions, provide personalised coaching and solve specific problems you’re facing.
On top of the Weekly Group Calls, you also get a Private 1-1 Call with me every 2 weeks. Most coaches only ever do group calls. I go further, because I will always make time for the men who choose to invest in their growth. That’s also why enrollment is only open for 9 days and spots are limited.
If you can’t attend live it’s no problem. All calls are recorded so you can access them at any time.
In between calls, you’ll have access to written Q&A in a private group chat. This is an intimate, safe space for men who are in a similar situation to you. Any questions or issues that arise between calls, this is the space to go and be supported.
You also get permanent direct WhatsApp access to me. Not a support team, not an assistant. Me. And it doesn't end when the program does.
My approach is very personalised to where you are in your life right now. This ensures it’ll be exactly what you need to move the needle forward.
There's a lot of hands-on support and accountability. This is less like a course you take and more like an initiation where I am by your side so that you will transform in the best of ways. We’ll be on this journey together.
Logistically this looks like:
Many results will happen in the first 3 months. It's amazing what happens when we focus on this for a set amount of time to drastically change everything.
Phase two: The Hold
While the first 3 months are just going to prepare you for everything you need. Change doesn't stop there. You'll continue to have direct access to myself, my team and all the resources for an extra 3 months, so you can continue to implement what you've learned, while being fully supported.
The first three months is powerful. But real change happens when you continue to move the needle, and watch yourself change before your eyes.
After three months, you're going to know the exact plan. You're going to know everything you need to do. You're gonna know exactly what's important and what's not.
And when you run into issues or roadblocks, you won't be alone. You've got the remaining 3 months to have my full support for anything that's coming up, any areas of support you need, just to continue this process.
You will have access to monthly coaching calls to checkin with me and optional support calls, where you can get personalised help. You can use these as needed. You can be as hands-on or as hands-off as you want.
You will continue to have access to the private chat with the small group of men you started the journey with. This is where you can ask written Q&A questions and get my support in between live calls. You'll have this for the whole 6 months period.
So much will change in the first 3 months. And after that you can just keep going and tap back in whenever you've got questions or changes or adjustments or needs help.
It's so much easier to move forward with progress when you are not doing this alone and always have a safe space to tap into whenever you need.
(NEW) Access to Your 24/7 Chosen Man AI Coach
Besides the abundance of live calls where you can be supported, and the written Q&A inside your small breakout groups... You also have access to an INSANE customised AI coach that has been specifically trained for "Chosen Man" members.
CHOSEN MAN AI - It is trained on my frameworks, my coaching style, my processes and tools. I built it so men in the program have support in between coaching calls, so you can catch a loop the moment it starts, work through a trigger, or get clear on your next step, whenever and wherever you need it.
THE PROTOCOL TRACKER - Your daily dashboard, yours for life. It holds the work you do between calls, tracks your non-negotiables and shows you the proof that you're changing, so nothing drifts and you can see your progress.
THE REWIRING LIBRARY - Guided visualisations and subconscious rewiring sessions to use alongside the weekly work. I created them so you can go deeper on your own time, and keep reinforcing the new identity in between calls.
The feedback from current men inside "Chosen Man" about these new additions has been incredible. You'll wonder how you managed without them. They will blow your mind with how insightful and helpful they are.
The best part? The AI is available 24/7 and it can never feel annoyed or tired. So you can ask the same question bothering you over and over until it's perfectly clear. You can talk to it at any time (even when you wake up at 2am spiralling about where your life is going - now you'll have someone to talk to)
What Can You Expect?
This program attracts the most committed men, those who are open-minded and ready to move. When you are surrounded by driven men, you will be inspired and energised to move forward in breaking your loops and creating real results, faster than if you were on your own.
All I ask for is three months of your full commitment to my proven process.
In those three months, you’ll see undeniable evidence that it’s working. You will start showing up, keeping your word and transforming before your eyes.
If you’re ready to go ALL IN and fast-track your progress, Chosen Man is for you.
Spots are limited.
The Investment:
For 6 months of support, designed to help you break the loops holding you back, drop the masks and rebuild your identity from the root so discipline becomes natural. You will see tangible changes within weeks.
Here is the investment for this incredible program:
Pay at Once Option
ÂŁ2,500 (one time payment)
Bonus for pay at once is lifetime access to the Private Chosen Man Community, with all classes unlocked, plus your Private 1-1 Calls continuing every 2 weeks for the full 6 months. This is valued at ÂŁ2,100.
Payment Plan Options
ÂŁ859 per month for 3 months
If you need a different payment plan or payment method, send me a message on instagram.
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The men who go ALL IN see real, measurable transformation:
﹡Pay in full BONUS - Bonus for paying in full is lifetime access to the Private Chosen Man Community with all classes unlocked, plus Private 1-1 Calls every 2 weeks for the full 6 months. This is valued at £2,100.
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Read full story →Q&A
This is a group program with private 1-1 support built in, which most programs don't offer. Every 2 weeks you get a Private 1-1 Call with me, and on the Weekly Group Calls I run hot seats where I coach you directly on exactly what you're facing, in front of men who are dealing with the same things.
You'll also be split into a small accountability pod of men matched by age and situation, so the conversations stay relevant to you. Between calls, you can post in the private chat or message me directly on WhatsApp.
Most men find the group makes the work faster, not slower, because hearing another man say out loud what you've never admitted is often the moment it shifts for you. And if you pay in full, your Private 1-1 Calls carry on every 2 weeks for the full 6 months too.
Short answer: it fits into your week more than it adds to your plate. Watch below for exactly what it takes.
Short answer: most men notice early shifts in the first few weeks, and every man moves at his own pace. Watch below for what the first 90 days look like.
Short answer: most coaching works on behaviour: routines, goals and accountability for habits. That's decorating a house with cracked foundations. We start with the foundations, so the behaviour holds. Watch below for why it lands differently this time.
Short answer: no. The longer you've run a loop, the deeper it's worn in, and it's easier the earlier you start. However, today is the youngest you'll ever be. Men in their 30s and 40s have gone through this process and seen real change, because identity can shift at any age. Watch below.
Short answer: yes. Most men inside are functional on the outside and drifting underneath. Watch below to see why.
I'm not a therapist. But I consistently get results with men that years of courses, podcasts and self-help content haven't given them, because I go to the root instead of the routine.
I grew up on a council estate with two alcoholic parents, barely speaking English, stuttering, and getting picked on for it. My mum died when I was eight. The last thing she told me was to never settle for less and to keep my standards high, no matter what anyone says. I went into foster care at eleven, and from then on I taught myself everything, from YouTube videos and ancient texts, because nobody was coming to do it for me.
I built Chosen Man because I was the man watching other people's videos wondering what was actually stopping me. It wasn't the estate or the money or the stutter. It was what was running underneath. Once I went for that, everything moved.
I did this on myself from the worst starting position you can get. Since then I've done it with over [100] men, many of them older than me, who had tried everything else first.
To be clear, this is coaching, not therapy. If you're dealing with a mental health crisis, please speak to your GP or a qualified professional first. The Initiation can work alongside that, not instead of it. Don't take my word for any of this. Watch the replay and hear it from the men themselves.
My clients are mostly busy working men without a lot of spare time, and I don't give out their contact details out of respect for their privacy. What I do instead is let you hear from them directly. Watch the "Man to Man" replays, where men I've worked with tell their stories in their own words, unscripted, about where they were and what changed. You can also watch their videos and read their stories on this page. If you still have questions after that, send me a message on Instagram and I'll answer you personally. I'd rather you decide with every question answered.
What Clients Are Saying:
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"Man to Man"
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Meet men who broke their loops, dropped the mask and started keeping their word.
Replay from our "Man to Man" call, a raw virtual gathering to meet men I've worked with. They tell you where they were, the loops they kept running, and what actually changed.
You'll leave knowing exactly why your resets keep collapsing, and what it looks like when they stop.
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Additional Q&As
Welcome to the Chosen Man Initiation. Watch this short video, then do the steps below today.
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Join the private Skool group
This is where your written Q&A, your pod and the weekly classes live.
Join the groupSave my WhatsApp number
Message me on WhatsApp at [your number]. Say hello and tell me the loop you're here to break.
Book your first Private 1-1 Call
Pick a time for your first private call with me. After that, we meet every 2 weeks.
Book your 1-1 CallIntroduce yourself in your pod
Name, age, and the loop you're here to break. Keep it honest. Every man in there is doing the same.
Put the first live call in your calendar
[Day, date] at [time] UK on Zoom. The link is pinned in the group.
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